I get it. Busy busy. Every moment filled and rushing to the next. Hoping for a moment of peace and quiet.
Balancing everyone else's needs and trying to squeeze in moments of time for you.
Today's challenge: how can you spend more moments in the moment?
Reminded today that it's not just what you know, its who you know. It's who you associate with... Who you spend time with. Its making time to connect with friends. On good days and bad. It can be easy in this hyper-connected world to feel like you know what's going on for them as you glimpse their feed... but we don't.
Nothing can replace a conversation with a friend. The power of connecting with someone who knows you and cares for you. Who you know and care for. The power of a friend.
Which friend can you connect with today?
You need to Name it to Tame it. Whether you’re peeking under the corner of your mental rug where you’ve swept your stuff or you’re diving into the deep end to swim through your stuff... before you move forward, before you accept or embrace it, before you work through it... you need to label it.
By giving it a name, you can start to work on it.
Until then it’s just a mess.
The name can be one you give or it can be one you recognise when you are learning from others, and then apply to yourself. The name may evolve over time as you...
Sea salt seeking this weekend. Its time for some beach. The beach (a quiet beach) is my happy place. Some of the best of nature, some quiet time and some time with those I love. This is my ideal recipe to restore.
Most of my Restore recipes include water - ideally moving water - but saltwater is my clear favourite. I like to fall asleep to the sound of waves so much I listen to the pink noise soundtracks of waves crashing. ...but its more than the sound and sights of the beach. Its also the smell. That smell of saltwater, and the smell of the dried salt on your skin...
"How did it come to this?", she asked. She sounded helpless and defeated. This smart, successful woman was juggling motherhood with her demanding role while in COVID lockdown in Melbourne. When we caught up, she was bouncing her two year old on her lap with her six year old “schooling” beside her, tugging on her every 10 minutes. That day she’d had meetings presenting to the leadership team, delivered a town hall briefing to hundreds and pumped out a couple of board papers. She’d provided emotional support for her team who were struggling under similar...
A week at the beach with the children at the end of a long project has been a good reminder of the importance of taking time to recharge.
In the first month of the project, our team discussed the recovery plans - what good looked like included a successful delivery, exceeding expectations and then some time off before returning to the day jobs.
This became an asset to our team as we worked through a challenging project with extensive travel and time away from family.
The week at the beach for me to recharge became an incentive for the children and a reward for putting up with...
Feeling exhausted and overwhelmed? Feeling detached from your work? Know you aren't performing like you could?
There is a difference between feeling tired and being burned out. Burnout was recognised by the World Health Organisation (WHO) in 2019 as an occupational phenomenon.
Burnout stems from chronic workplace stress that has not been successfully managed.
The three main signs of burnout are:
More than feeling physically tired, you may feel completely drained of energy. Despite feeling exhausted, you may experience trouble sleeping...
As we slowly start to return to workplaces, like you, I’m thinking about how not to squander the reset of the last few months. Once the intensity of crisis management transitioned into the new normal, I found moments of quiet which might otherwise have been spent previously in a car crossing a city for meetings, on a plane or at various events. While I’ve always made time to reflect, I relished this quiet, this downtime.
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